We're not really talking about "unwritten rules" here.
[-] What are the rules of conduct for the forum?
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Now believe me I'm not saying any of this holds water or is truly relevant. It was written 10 years ago by somebody else. Nor am I suggesting that we should all be Smurf Village and sitting around holding hands or anything like that. But I don't think you should be allowed to play the "ignorance of the rules" card when it's generally common sense to not go to the extremes he has. I also think someone should know where the line is as far as playing the "heel card" goes. Right now I'd say CH has X-Pac heat which is to say.. People don't hate the character because he is a good heel, they just hate him because they hate him.
I don't really care if CH calls me names or tells me how much I suck at the game or any of that. I choose never to engage him back because it would be like talking trash to Rocky Dennis. But I will admit that it's really frustrating to spend your few days off working on putting an event together for everyone to enjoy and for him to just immediately come and shit on it. Then for it to subsequently evolve into any kind of drama.